Before she rose

Her father hid her boxing gloves and banned her from the sport. Her village had no electricity. She trained anyway.

She had to hide her boxing from her father for years. She trained in a shed with a concrete floor, on a near-empty stomach. Nobody was handing her a path — she was building it in the dark.

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Mary Kom

1983–present · Kangathei, Manipur, India

6× World Boxing Champion. Mother of three. From a village with no electricity in Manipur.

I have faced the world. I have fought against everything that tried to stop me. I am still here.

— Mary Kom

Her village had no electricity. Her family were farmers who could barely afford food. She had to hide her boxing from her father — he thought it was no sport for a girl. She went on to win six World Championships, an Olympic medal, and become one of the most decorated athletes in Indian history.

Her story

She is 15. She sees a photo of Dingko Singh, the boxer who won gold at the Asian Games.

"I thought: if he can, why can't I?" She found a boxing gym and showed up.

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Mary Kom won the World Amateur Boxing Championship 6 times — in 2002, 2005, 2006, 2008, 2010, and 2018.

The only woman to win it 6 times. She also won a bronze medal at the 2012 London Olympics.

She got married. Had twin sons. Everyone assumed she was done.

She came back eight months after giving birth and won the Asian Championship.

She trained on a near-empty stomach. She trained in a shed with a concrete floor. She trained when her children were sleeping so she didn't miss time with them.

She was never gifted anything. She fought for every single inch.

What she taught us

◈The world will underestimate you. Use that.
◈Your body is not a limitation — it is your greatest tool.
◈You can come back. From anything. You can always come back.

I have faced the world. I have fought against everything that tried to stop me. I am still here.

— Mary Kom, Mary Kom

Her story. Your life.

A question worth sitting with

Mary Kom came back eight months after giving birth and won a championship. What have you been telling yourself you cannot return to — a dream, a goal, a version of yourself?

Take sixty seconds. Just sit with it.

A letter from her — to you

Dear you, They will tell you: you're too small. Too poor. Too female. Too much of a mother. Too old. Too late. I have heard every version of this. And I want you to know — the voice that says "you can't come back" is lying. I came back eight months after giving birth. I came back when my body hurt. I came back when people had already written me off and moved on to the next big thing. I came back because the thing inside me that wanted to fight was louder than everything that said I should stop. You have that thing too. I can tell — because you're here reading this, which means something in you is still fighting, still hoping, still looking for a reason to believe. This is your reason: you are not finished. Whatever you left behind, walked away from, had to put down — it is still there waiting for you. And you are stronger now than you were before. The hard parts made sure of that. Come back. Yours, Mary Kom

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